Back to all reflectionsRituals · 4 min read · April 21, 2026
Small rituals for anniversary days
Gentle, doable ways to mark the days that hold extra weight.
Anniversaries, birthdays, the date of a loss - these days can land with surprising weight even years later. A small, intentional ritual can be a way of saying: I remember. I am still in love. I am still here.
Light a candle at the same time of day. Cook a meal you used to share. Write a letter you will never send. Take a walk on a trail they loved. Place flowers somewhere unexpected.
Rituals do not have to be elaborate. Their power is in the choosing - the moment you decide to meet the day with intention rather than be flattened by it.
— Janice
